How to Introduce Your Parents to AI Assistants
If you've ever tried to explain technology to your parents, you know it can be challenging. But AI assistants are different. When introduced the right way, they can genuinely improve your parents' daily lives without the steep learning curve of smartphones and apps.
Here's how to help your aging parents discover the benefits of AI assistants, based on what actually works.
Start with a Real Problem They Have
Don't lead with "let me show you this cool AI thing." Instead, wait for a natural moment:
- "Mom, you mentioned wanting that apple pie recipe from years ago. Let me show you something that can help you find it."
- "Dad, instead of looking up that medication question, let's just ask Etta."
- "You said you wanted to write a thank-you note to the neighbors. Here's an easy way to get started."
When AI solves a real problem they're currently facing, it clicks. Abstract demos don't.
Choose a Simple, Senior-Friendly Interface
ChatGPT and other popular AI tools weren't designed for seniors. Small text, cluttered interfaces, and account requirements create barriers.
That's exactly why we built Ask Etta. It's designed specifically for seniors—just tap the microphone and talk. No typing required, no confusing menus.
Let Them Discover, Don't Over-Explain
The biggest mistake adult children make: talking too much. Resist the urge to explain how AI works or list all its features.
Instead:
- Show them one thing (like asking for a recipe)
- Let them try it themselves
- Step back and let them explore
When they discover something useful on their own, they'll remember it. When you lecture, they tune out.
Address the Fear Factor
Many seniors worry about:
- "Is this safe?" — Reassure them: reputable AI assistants don't store personal information or share their questions with anyone.
- "Will I break something?" — Nothing they say can break anything. It's just a conversation.
- "Is this replacing human connection?" — No, it's a tool, like a cookbook or encyclopedia. It helps with tasks, not relationships.
Be Patient with the Learning Curve
Your parents grew up in a different world. Be patient. What seems obvious to you ("just tap here") may require explanation.
Some tips:
- Visit in person to set it up the first time
- Write down 2-3 example questions they can try
- Check in after a week to see if they have questions
- Celebrate small wins ("You found that recipe yourself!")
The Goal: Independence, Not Dependence
The best outcome is when your parents use their AI assistant independently—looking up recipes, getting health information, writing messages—without needing to call you for help.
That's real empowerment. And it starts with a thoughtful introduction.